4 tips for planning a wedding during COVID
In the early months of the coronavirus pandemic, no one thought we’d still be working from home and wearing masks a year later. Later in 2020 or 2021 seemed safe. Yet, with vaccinations rolling out far too slowly and cases and deaths continuing to rise dramatically, it’s hard to know exactly when the Australia will put this phase behind us.But a virus can’t stop love. Enter phase 2: As new couples get engaged—and as rescheduled weddings now face constraints similar to those from six months ago—it’s tricky to figure out the right move.
Do you elope? Do you host a small gathering? Do you wait for everyone to be vaccinated? Is it responsible to take a honeymoon? Couples are now facing options that look nothing like their Pinterest boards. Vendors, such as venues, DJs, caterers, and florists, have evolved their practices, too. Today’s contracts almost always include language about cancellations and rescheduling, and sometimes it’s COVID specific.
Read the contracts. This is good advice all the time, but it is especially important while planning a wedding during a pandemic. You’ll want to know what the cancellation and rescheduling policy is, when you have to make the decision, and whether your deposit will transfer over to the new date. Also ask if there are restrictions on the new date; some vendors let you reschedule only if it’s within a year.
One of the reasons we signed a contract with our venue was its flexibility with what a rescheduled event could look like. We have the ability to apply our deposit to any future event, whether that’s a 12-person brunch or an 80-person dinner. Not being locked into the original plan allows us to do what feels right in the moment.
Understand what communication patterns to expect. Many wedding vendors, like hotel block coordinators, have been hit hard by the pandemic and may be working limited hours. The event coordinators at our venue are down to 20 hours per week. It’s a good idea to ask what response times you can expect so you limit frustration down the line.
And get ready to put that Zoom experience to work.
Devise an objective COVID plan.
This plan allows for no gray area. I don’t have to rely on my gut feeling about whether my decision is endangering the most important people in my life. It will be a hard call to make no matter what, but knowing that the situation will clearly either meet the guidelines or it won’t makes it a bit easier.
Fall in love with your backup plan.
There have been a variety of COVID-friendly wedding iterations, and we’re going the route of a popular one: We’ll have a small ceremony on the original date with a larger party in 2022, likely the weekend of our first anniversary. The “small party,” as I’ve been calling it, will bring together 12 Brisbane–based friends for an outdoor ceremony and dinner party where I wear a fancy dress. There are some perks to a small wedding, and it’s been fun to focus on those instead of only seeing it as a disappointment
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